It is your responsibility to do your utmodst to defend you planets, fleets and res.
Fleetsaving is central to playing ogame and has to be learnt.
Being attacked because you are not playing ogame properly is not the responsibility of the group.
ACE IS there to stop you being victimised and has other benefits too eg. support (res loans), backup, defense, joint attacks, trade, training, social..
Certainly if you have some sweet revenge to get because you cut a corner in order to advance quicker and someone took advantage of your weakness, find the weak spot and present it as an ACS idea for a group attack.
Remember, if you have any problem, post if on the board, and WE as a group will decide TOGETHER how we can help you. The right response might be how to play the game correctly so you are not attracting your enemy with juicey carrots.
THE PROOF OF WHO WE ARE IS IN OUR HEARTFELT REACTIONS.